As a local that has lived in Palm Desert since 1990 with only about 8 years away in the middle of it, I’ll add a little to what Travis shared on the pod.
Places of interest
The Living Desert - If you bring a family out here with kids, it’s a good spot to entertain them. Small and really well run zoo with the largest model train setup west of the Mississippi.
Palm Springs Art Museum - In downtown Palm Springs (they have a satellite in Palm Desert as well).
Joshua Tree National Park - Not sure how anyone hates on this park. It is a truly unique place and you won’t find anything like it anywhere in the world.
Places to eat -
Mexican food
The three best authentic Mexican food meals you can get are in downtown Indio
Casa de Silvia (Silvia has won “best tamale” at the Indio Tamale Festival multiple times which features tamale makers from all over the country). Service can be a little underwhelming at times in terms of speed but it is worth it. Aside from the tamales, their chilaquiles and cafe de olla give me the feels just thinking about them.
El Mexicali Cafe (literally 5 yards from the train tracks)
Rincon Norteño
Both El Mexicali and Rincon Norteño are the two old establishment places that deliver extremely authentic and delicious food. You can’t miss with any of the three. Keep in mind these places ARE NOT FOR DINNER. Breakfast or lunch only.
If you are unwilling to drive to downtown Indio or looking for Mexican options for dinner then I would suggest Fresh Agave in Palm Desert on Highway 111. The bar scene is always happening and their food is serviceable. They have one of the best service staffs in the valley and they pour stiff cocktails. The twin bartenders Efrain and Jesus, who started Fresh Agave after leaving Armando’s are two of the best people you’d ever want to be around. Every time you leave they always say “See you tomorrow”. I love that.
Non-Mexican Food
Keedy’s (in Palm Desert). It is the go to greasy spoon breakfast diner in the desert. Their pancakes are near the top of my list for best pancake anywhere. Your chances of accidentally seeing a famous Champions Tour type player increase going to Keedy’s.
The Rooster and The Pig. In Palm Springs just off the strip in a strip mall. Incredible Vietnamese/asian fusion cuisine. They don’t take reservations, first come first serve.
La Quinta Brewery. My favorite local micro brew. They have locations in old town La Quinta and downtown Palm Springs.
Nightlife/Entertainment
The Nest in Indian Wells. In season this place is ground zero for cougars, sugar daddies, bachelorette parties, clowns (literal actual clowns), and anyone looking to people watch. It is almost always a wild mix of people.
Tack Room Tavern in Indio. Out at the polo grounds. Cool bar across the street from The Plantation. It can be hit and miss with the crowd but it’s a good spot to spend an evening.
Pappy & Harriets. P&H is in the high desert up near Joshua Tree. It is in Pioneertown which is an old location for Hollywood western shoots. Pappy and Harriets is one of the coolest restaurant/music venues I have ever been to. It is a favorite spot for many musicians to play. I can’t do it justice in words. Check out their website and look at who has played there. It’s impressive. Their restaurant serves really good BBQ as well.
The Little Bar in Palm Desert. Tiny bar, great burger. It’s on Hwy 111 and owned by one of the bigwigs at Goldenvoice who put on the Coachella Festival. He’s usually there hanging out.
I would have included The Red Barn in Palm Desert to this list but the owner is a QAnon MAGA freak and the clientele has gotten shadier and shadier every year. It used to be the go to dive bar.
Grocery Store Scene
Albertsons / Ralphs / Whole Foods / Trader Joes all tend to rule the macro grocery scene. There is a Bristol Farms and a Henry’s in the desert as well. Cardenas rules the Mexican grocery scene.
Then there is Jensen’s. Jensen’s is top of the food chain in my world. They source local produce, have the finest butcher/meat section in the valley, and arguably the best wine selection. They also tend to have finer quality boxed and canned goods. It feels elite when visiting because it is elite.
I’ll add more as I think about it more.