Welcome @dernoski I am also in Durham, and a member at Occoneechee. Umstead and Hillandale are my other go to’s in Durham. Since I got involved with the RACDG and the other knuckleheads here, been playing a lot in the Sandhills.
We have an event planned at Hyland on August 22, sign up if interested.
Also DM me if you are interested in checking out the Royal and Ancient Company of Dishonourable Golfers