Just to follow up on this:
The 10 min version is fine for what it should have been. An Easter Egg gift to fans. She kept dropping hints about it, and fans kept freaking out about it, and when it was released, it was interesting, some of it cool, a nod to what gets left on the cutting room floor in the creative process.
It never should have become the preferred version of the song, because all the extra shit ruins the cumulative power and tension of the song.
The scarf is a bomb waiting go off. It’s Chekov’s gun, mentioned in the first act, except the first time you hear the song you don’t think it’s important.
And when it shows up in the last verse, it’s fucking nuclear. It flips the whole song again, turns it back into something empowering. Yes, you wrecked me, but you lost the one real thing you’ll ever know, and the reason you kept the scarf is because you know on some level you can’t let go of the real shit we had. Even the final chorus is a callback to the lyrical shit we’ve already heard about, the red light, the dancing in the kitchen. It’s really good, masterclass vulnerability. As I’ve said before on this thread, there have been better songwriters, but this was a really good example of how she was willing to risk something to speak to broadly-held emotions of a love affair gone bad.
The 10-min version kind of ditches the power of that perfect landing for some meh jokes about how I get older and your lovers stay the same age. We already know the love affair kind of did a number on him because of the scarf! We don’t need to repeat the question about whether he was maimed six times. It would be like if Shawshank Redemption released an extended cut where Andy and Red chat on the beach for 5 minutes about how Red realized he had to get busy living or get busy dying, and how Andy helped him understand the power of hope, how it wasn’t a dangerous thing.
That’s already in the subtext! We don’t need more of it!
Sorry, but from a storytelling perspective, the whole embrace of the 10-minute version being superior just makes me crazy.