Well, we had a thread about that. It was as meta-refuge as they come. Unfortunately it’s no longer available, to my knowledge. But basically the dads said they were no longer interested in policing the whole place, especially following some kind of NIT drama that even people at the NIT didn’t seem to fully understand/agree on, but of course it spilled over into here and was gaslit because #internet. They recorded a pod about it too, not sure if that’s still available somewhere.
Edit: it’s here REFUGE CHANGES (Please Read for Pertinent Info)
There was also someone who came in with the hottest first post of all time, announcing he and his fiancé wanted the large Randall to officiate their wedding. That was something.